I enjoy your Friday column. I'm a somewhat happily married male with strong urges to go down on another male. Gay porn is a total turnoff, but I have gone down on a couple of guys and loved it. Kissing a guy, however, would make me ill. What is wrong with me?
Sex column: I’m married to a woman but I’ve started having gay urges. | Metro News
Sex column: I’m married to a woman but I’ve started having gay urges. What should I do?
When the Eliot Spitzer scandal broke in March, I had only sympathy for him: another middle-aged married guy tormented by his sexual needs. So the conversation had a conspiratorial male character. When I told one married friend about my torment, he cut me off. Straying, wandering eye, a blowup. If you have a pulse.
31 arguments against gay marriage (and why they’re all wrong)
Giving the TCI and the four other Caribbean overseas territories a deadline to enact same-sex marriage legislation — or have London do it for them — was among a slew of controversial recommendations released last week. And some of its findings, published on February 21, go to the heart of cultural divisions between the Caribbean territories and their former coloniser. The subject of gay marriage arose early in the process when regional representatives were called to give evidence to a parliamentary select committee last year.
Museum no. According to their own testimonies, many people born in the Victorian age were both factually uninformed and emotionally frigid about sexual matters. Historically, it appeared that the licentious behaviour and attitudes of the Regency period had been replaced by a new order of puritan control and repression - personified by the censorious figure of Mrs Grundy - which was imposed by the newly dominant bourgeoisie, steadily permeated all classes, and lasted well into the 20th century. Then a hypocritical 'shadow side' to this public denial was glimpsed, in the 'secret world' of Victorian prostitution and pornography, and more openly in the 'naughty nineties'.